Social Customs in the USA
When traveling to the United States you will discover a very wide range of customs that differ along with the diversity of its geography depending on which state you are in. From the beaches to the mountains to the deserts, you will find that most people are very friendly and welcoming no matter where you are.
With an easygoing spirit, Americans love to see travelers in their country, but as is true anywhere else in the world, it is important to remember your manners and common courtesies and you will have a joyful and rewarding experience. Generally, Americans are casual in their dress especially if they are on holiday so that is generally acceptable in most places, however in a high end restaurant or club, you are better off if your dress is more business casual. When in doubt, it is better to err on the side of being overdressed, rather than too relaxed and underdressed.
If you visit someone’s home, it is customary to bring a small gift or bottle of wine depending on what the occasion is, but generally for a dinner or barbeque that will be acceptable and your hosts will be appreciative as well. Shaking hands is the generally accepted form of greeting when meeting someone new, although once you have met someone the next time you see them they might greet you with a kiss on the cheek instead of a handshake.
Tipping is customary for service professionals such as waiters, taxi drivers, parking valets or hotel porters or chambermaids and tips are considered a large part of their income. In a restaurant or bar, the customary tip is 15 to 20 percent – with 20 percent for service that is considered exceptional. Chambermaids generally should be tipped $3-5 per day and parking valets $1-$2 and skycaps should be tipped at $1 per bag.
Smoking is becoming less acceptable and many restaurants and public establishments do not allow smoking inside their premises, but might allow smoking outside on a patio area. Some towns and cities though are becoming stricter about this and cities like Seattle are considered smoke free meaning you can only smoke in the privacy of your own home. Some hotels are smoke free as well or only have designated rooms that are for smokers. It is prudent to always ask if you are unsure before lighting up especially if you are with other people who might not smoke. Always look for no smoking signs and you will be safe.
All countries have their cultural differences in the customary ways to do things. Americans dislike anyone cutting in when in a queue. Also, talking on a mobile phone in a restaurant or other establishment is considered rude so you should find a quiet corner or go outside to take your call. Americans are also very fastidious about showers and hygiene in general. In any country it is important to be courteous and always ask if you are unsure about anything. You will find that America is a fascinating place to visit and you will have a lovely visit with lasting memories of a good time.